Relationships should make you feel secure – but does your boyfriend’s behavior go beyond caring into controlling? Do you feel like you’re losing independence or walking on eggshells? You may not be sure if his actions cross the line.
Take this quiz to find unhealthy control signs versus normal couple compromises. I’ll ask about his reactions to your friends, clothing, schedule and more.
Your answers will help reveal if he’s protectively guiding or possessively dominating you. You deserve respect in relationships, not coercion. While no quiz provides definitive answers, reflecting mindfully can bring clarity.
You may feel at ease that he cares intently but not excessively. Or you may gain courage to address control issues. Either way, tuning into your feelings is the first step to nurturing good relationships.
Let’s find out.
How does your boyfriend react when you spend time with friends or family without him?
How does your boyfriend respond when you express a difference of opinion or make decisions independently?
How does your boyfriend react when you want to pursue personal interests or hobbies that don't involve him?
How does your boyfriend react when you receive attention or praise from others in social or professional settings?
How does your boyfriend react when you express a desire for more independence or space in the relationship?
How does your boyfriend react when you make plans or decisions without consulting him first?
How does your boyfriend react when you spend time apart from him, whether it's for work, socializing, or personal activities?
How does your boyfriend react when you express dissatisfaction or disagreement with something he says or does?
How does your boyfriend react when you want to spend time with friends or family without him?
How does your boyfriend react when you set boundaries or assert your independence in the relationship?
How does your boyfriend react when you spend time with your friends without him?
How does your boyfriend react when you express a desire to pursue your own interests or hobbies?
How does your boyfriend react when you make plans with friends or family without consulting him first?
How does your boyfriend react when you express a differing opinion or disagreement with him?
How does your boyfriend react when you express a need for more privacy or personal space?
How does your boyfriend react when you express discomfort or dissatisfaction with his behavior or actions?
How does your boyfriend react when you express a desire to spend time alone or with friends without him?
How does your boyfriend react when you receive compliments or attention from other people?
How does your boyfriend react when you express your opinions or preferences?
How does your boyfriend react when you spend time with your family or close friends?
Is My Boyfriend Controlling Quiz?
Freedom
Based on your responses, it appears that your boyfriend is prioritize the value of freedom in a relationship. He believe in allowing the space and autonomy to express themselves, pursue their interests, and make decisions without feeling restricted or constrained by the other.
Respect
Based on your responses, it appears that he is respectful towards you. He value your feelings, opinions, and boundaries, and he treat them with kindness, consideration, and dignity.
Trust
Based on your responses, it seems like he value trust as a crucial aspect of your relationship.
Control
Based on your responses, it appears that you are experiencing a situation where your boyfriend is trying to control you. This involves using tactics like manipulation, domination, or coercion to impose their will on the other person, disregarding their autonomy and freedom of choice.
About Ethan Archer
Ethan is a writer and editor dedicated to exploring the dynamics of modern relationships. He also plays a pivotal role in shaping the editorial direction of RelationUp.
