Am I Good Girlfriend Quiz?

Being a great girlfriend takes empathy, effort, and care. But in the busyness of life, it can be hard to know if you’re showing up as your best self for your partner. This quiz will help you gain insight.

I’ll ask you questions about how you support your boyfriend emotionally, respect his needs, communicate, resolve conflicts, and more. Your answers will reveal your strengths as a girlfriend and any areas for improvement.

While no quiz can assess you definitively, reflecting on key areas provides motivation to keep improving. You may feel reassured by your devotion or gain ideas for bringing more joy and intimacy to the bond you share.

Let’s find out!

How do you communicate with your boyfriend when you disagree on something?

I strive to understand his perspective and find common ground

I express my concerns while considering his feelings

I tend to avoid conflicts to maintain harmony

I often engage in heated arguments without seeking resolution

How do you support your boyfriend's decisions and goals?

I offer constructive advice and help him achieve his aspirations

I often criticize or question his decisions, creating tension

I encourage and stand by him in pursuing his dreams

I respect his choices but don't actively involve myself in his endeavors

How do you handle conflicts or disagreements with your boyfriend?

I prefer to avoid conflicts to maintain peace in the relationship

I approach conflicts calmly and aim for a mutually beneficial solution

I try to find a middle ground and address the issue constructively

I tend to escalate arguments and refuse to back down

How do you express appreciation for your boyfriend's efforts and gestures?

I reciprocate with gestures of kindness and affection

I often fail to recognize his efforts or criticize them

I regularly express gratitude and acknowledge his contributions

I sometimes overlook his efforts but try to show appreciation when I can

How do you prioritize spending time with your boyfriend?

I sometimes prioritize other activities over spending time with hi

I often neglect spending time with him due to other interests

I make spending quality time together a priority in my schedule

I balance time with him and other commitments effectively

How do you handle disagreements with your boyfriend?

I try to find a compromise that satisfies both of us

I tend to argue my point aggressively without considering his feelings

I prefer to avoid confrontations to keep the peace

I listen to his perspective and work towards a resolution together

How do you support your boyfriend during challenging times?

I actively listen to his concerns and provide assistance as needed

I stand by him and offer my unwavering support

I tend to criticize or blame him during tough situations

I offer minimal support and prefer to give him space

How do you handle disagreements or conflicts with your boyfriend?

I seek common ground and aim for mutually beneficial solutions

I tend to escalate arguments and refuse to back down

I avoid conflicts to maintain harmony in the relationship

I approach conflicts with patience and empathy

How do you express affection and appreciation towards your boyfriend?

I occasionally express affection but may forget at times

I rarely show affection or appreciation towards him

I show affection through words and actions regularly

I openly express my love and appreciation for him

How do you handle disagreements or conflicts in your relationship?

I approach conflicts with understanding and empathy

I try to find solutions that benefit both of us

I avoid conflicts to prevent tension in the relationship

I tend to argue my point aggressively, leading to tension

How do you react when your boyfriend shares his feelings with you?

I offer emotional support and reassurance

I listen attentively and try to understand his perspective

I sometimes struggle to empathize with his emotions

I dismiss his feelings or become defensive

How do you support your boyfriend's personal goals and ambitions?

I actively participate in helping him achieve his goals

I criticize or belittle his ambitions

I respect his goals but maintain independence in my own pursuits

I encourage and motivate him to pursue his dreams

How do you handle your emotions during disagreements with your boyfriend?

I communicate my feelings calmly and constructively

I try to find common ground and compromise

I avoid expressing my emotions to prevent conflict

I let my emotions escalate conflicts

How do you handle conflicts with your boyfriend's friends or family?

I compromise to maintain peace within his social circle

I often argue or clash with his friends or family

I avoid conflicts with his friends or family members

I communicate openly and try to find a resolution

How do you handle surprises or unexpected changes in your relationship?

I discuss concerns and find solutions together

I react negatively or become confrontational

I adapt to changes with understanding and flexibility

I prefer to avoid addressing unexpected changes

How do you show appreciation for your boyfriend's efforts or gestures?

I express gratitude and acknowledge his actions

I reciprocate with gestures of kindness and affection

I sometimes overlook his efforts but try to show appreciation

I rarely acknowledge his efforts or criticize them

How do you handle situations where your boyfriend needs space or time alone?

I feel uncomfortable with his need for space and seek reassurance

I respect his need for space and give him time to himself

I become upset or needy when he wants space

I offer support while giving him the space he needs

How do you handle your boyfriend's achievements or successes?

I feel jealous or insecure about his successes

I acknowledge his achievements but keep my distance

I congratulate him and support his continued success

I celebrate his accomplishments and share his joy

How do you respond when your boyfriend shares his feelings with you?

I listen attentively and try to understand his perspective

I offer support and comfort, validating his emotions

I sometimes struggle to connect with his feelings

I dismiss his feelings or become defensive

How do you handle disagreements or conflicts in your relationship?