Am I A Bad Girlfriend Quiz?

No one is perfect in relationships, but are there ways you could be a better partner? It’s easy to overlook our own detrimental habits. This quiz will help you gain valuable self-awareness.

I’ll ask questions about your attentiveness, reliability, communication style, emotional support, and other girlfriend behaviors. Your answers will reveal areas you’re excelling at as well as any improvements needed.

Thoughtfully answering these questions will provide perspective on your girlfriend strengths and weaknesses. The insights you gain will help you to nurture your best self in relationship and address any unhealthy behaviors holding you back.

This quiz is a tool for self-improvement – to help you understand where you stand and how to enhance the love you share through meaningful change.

Let’s start!

How do you typically handle disagreements with your partner?

I try to resolve conflicts calmly and constructively

I sometimes give in to avoid arguments

I avoid discussing issues to prevent conflict

I argue frequently and refuse to compromise

How do you react when your partner shares their feelings or concerns?

I avoid emotional discussions to prevent conflict

I listen attentively and try to understand their perspective

I sometimes dismiss their feelings as unimportant

I become defensive and argumentative

How do you handle differences in opinions or preferences?

I sometimes give in to avoid conflict, even if I disagree

I argue passionately for my point of view

I avoid expressing my opinions to prevent arguments

I try to find common ground and compromise

How do you react when your partner criticizes you?

I consider their feedback constructively and try to improve

I sometimes get defensive or dismissive of their criticism

I avoid situations where I might receive criticism

I retaliate with criticism of my own

How do you handle conflicts over household chores or responsibilities?

I sometimes avoid discussing chores to prevent arguments

I communicate openly and work together to find a solution

I blame my partner for not doing their fair share

I tend to avoid responsibilities altogether

How do you react when your partner needs space or time alone?

I sometimes feel insecure or clingy when they want space

I disregard their need for space and insist on constant attention

I respect their need for space and give them room to breathe

I struggle to give them space and may become overly demanding

How do you handle disagreements regarding finances or shared responsibilities?

I sometimes avoid discussing financial issues to prevent arguments

I tend to make unilateral decisions without consulting my partner

I refuse to take responsibility or contribute to shared tasks

I communicate openly and work together to find solutions

How do you handle conflicts arising from differences in values or beliefs?

I try to understand their perspective and find common ground

I insist on my beliefs without considering their viewpoint

I sometimes feel threatened or defensive when our values clash

I avoid discussing sensitive topics to prevent arguments

How do you react when your partner expresses dissatisfaction or unhappiness in the relationship?

I sometimes ignore their feelings or dismiss them as unimportant

I actively listen and try to address their concerns

I blame them for any issues in the relationship and become defensive

I avoid discussing relationship problems to maintain peace

How do you handle conflicts about personal boundaries or privacy?

I sometimes disregard their boundaries to satisfy my own needs

I avoid discussing boundaries to prevent arguments

I insist on invading their privacy without considering their feelings

I respect their boundaries and discuss any issues openly

How do you typically resolve conflicts with your partner?

I sometimes try to find middle ground

I often escalate conflicts through arguments

I actively seek resolutions and compromise

I tend to avoid conflicts altogether

How do you respond to your partner's requests or needs?

I sometimes consider their requests

I often dismiss their requests or needs

I tend to ignore their requests to avoid conflict

I prioritize their needs and try to fulfill them

How do you handle disagreements with your partner's friends or family?

I tend to avoid conflicts with them altogether

I try to find common ground and maintain peace

I often argue with them, causing strain in the relationship

I sometimes compromise to avoid tension

How do you handle criticism or feedback from your partner?

I listen and consider their perspective constructively

I sometimes take their feedback into account

I tend to ignore or dismiss their criticism

I often become defensive or argumentative

How do you react to your partner's achievements or successes?

I sometimes acknowledge their successes

I often feel envious or competitive

I tend to downplay or ignore their achievements

I celebrate and support their accomplishments

How do you handle disagreements over finances or spending habits?

I sometimes compromise to avoid arguments

I often argue over financial matters

I communicate openly and find compromises

I tend to avoid discussing financial issues

How do you handle disagreements regarding future plans or goals?

I tend to avoid discussing future plans

I often argue or resist their ideas for the future

I discuss and find compromises together

I sometimes try to find middle ground

How do you handle conflicts regarding personal space or independence?

I respect their need for space and independence

I tend to invade their personal space or independence

I sometimes compromise on personal space

I often disregard their need for space

How do you react to your partner's emotions or vulnerabilities?

I sometimes empathize with their feelings

I offer support and understanding

I often become defensive or dismissive

I tend to ignore or dismiss their emotions

How do you handle disagreements regarding intimacy or affection?